Hi Friend, I’d love for you to join me for the Second Annual Coaches’ BBQ—an all-day, free, virtual gathering happening Friday, September 26. It’s a come-and-go event designed to connect coaches from around the world in conversations that are casual, creative, and community-led. You can drop in anytime that works best for you: 7am–3pm PT 10am–6pm ET 4pm–12am Berlin 10pm–6am Singapore 👉 Learn more on the landing page 👉 Register to attend 👉 Sign up to host a session Here’s a taste of some...
10 months ago • 1 min read
The Kind Point September 2, 2025 GET OUTTA TOWN Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! Whenever I hear someone say, “Get outta town,” the literal part of my brain flashes to a scene from the film Waiting for Guffman, with Ron and Sheila Albertson, local celebrities in the...
11 months ago • 4 min read
The Kind Point June 12, 2025 UNEXPECTED GRATITUDE Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! When Terry and I were at the grocery store two weeks ago, an employee in the self-checkout area rolled up to me in his wheelchair and asked, “Hey buddy, how’d it happen?” as he gave my...
about 1 year ago • 3 min read
The Kind Point March 27, 2025 MUSCLE MEMORY Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! My mom’s dog Maggie went blind over a year ago and is currently wearing one of those cones so she can’t scratch at an abscess on her leg. She plowed into me while I stood at my mom’s hall...
over 1 year ago • 4 min read
The Kind Point February 18, 2025 Doom Commenting Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! I’ve often wondered if there’s a moment right before drunk texting when people think, "Hey, let’s not do this. Let’s put the phone down. We can review the words tomorrow after some sleep...
over 1 year ago • 3 min read
The Kind Point January 31, 2025 Crotch Roulette Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! There my mom and I sat, talking about bidets, as mothers and sons do. I’d told her that Terry and I were going to install a high-tech Japanese bidet toilet in our primary bathroom. She...
over 1 year ago • 3 min read
The Kind Point January 9th, 2025 Eating Paper Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! While studying in Taipei in 1992, a new friend and I went out for breakfast before class. She held up one of the steamed buns she’d ordered and admitted that she almost ate the white paper on...
over 1 year ago • 3 min read
The Kind Point December 19th, 2024 Kindness—It Isn't What You Think Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! In the second of the X-Men movies, as Storm and Nightcrawler are about to confront a villain who can distract people with illusions, fellow superhero Jean Grey issues...
over 1 year ago • 3 min read
The Kind Point December 3rd, 2024 Coming Out Is a Progressive Verb Hi! I'm Jeff, if you're reading this, it's because I view you as someone I'd want to sit down over matcha and chat about life with. I'll be sending this newsletter out every few weeks or so. If it's not your jam, feel free to unsubscribe, I won't be offended! Ever felt a little impatient that your direct report, or your kid, isn’t getting it fast enough? You’re waiting for them to change and they’re Just. Not. Doing. It. FAST....
over 1 year ago • 3 min read